Imagine this is sex school. This is one of the most important lessons you will learn. The female orgasm, much like the female mind, is a complex phenomenon that is hard to understand. But pay attention to the following insider’s tutorial and you you’ll soon work your way to the top of the class.

Good Things Take Time

Studies suggest that it can take a woman anywhere between 15-40 minutes to orgasm via sexual intercourse. On the contrary, a man may be able to reach climax in as quick as 2 minutes. As a result, many women are so preoccupied with taking too long that they will fake climax or simply go without. But relaxation is an essential ingredient in female orgasm. So, if you are interested in your woman’s sexual satisfaction, you need to make it known to her that you are just as happy as she is to take all night. Start the evening with a massage and you’ll help her get in the right frame of mind.

Congratulate Her Nakedness

The female orgasm is as much an emotional experience as it is a physical one. So while her clothes seem like an orgasm obstacle to you, for her, it’s the exposed feeling of being naked that might be inhibiting her climax.  And while you think it’s obvious that you find her body sexually attractive, she honestly doesn’t know it, until you tell her, about 100 times. So when she undresses, look at her lovingly and lustfully, and tell her what you think of what you see.

We’re Always Multi-tasking

No it’s not a myth. For some women, it’s possible to juggle 2-3 orgasms at once. So why it may be a road long travelled, once you get her there, you can definitely make the destination worth the journey. There are two types of multiple orgasms for a woman. The one that you have the most control over is the sequential orgasm, where orgasms are separated by a 2-3 minute interval. To encourage sequential multiple orgasm, continue to kiss and caress her after her first climax. Leave her genital region alone so that her clitoris has time to desensitise. After her breathing has slowed, start to pay her clitoris some gentle, digital attention. If she responds positively then her refractory period has passed and it may only be a few seconds before another orgasm occurs.

You’ve Got Two Shots

It may be a more complex task getting your female partner to climax than it is to get yourself to, but at least you’ve got two chances.  Women can reach climax via external clitoral or internal g-spot stimulation. What’s more, technology is on your side. There are a series of gadgets that you can use to help you target both areas at once, significantly increasing your chances of the achieving the desired result. The world famous rabbit vibrator is a global top-seller and it’s not surprising why. Because it stimulates both erogenous zones at once, the rabbit is a bedroom essential for many single women. So why not bring one into your relationship? Because it’s not how you get her there that counts.
    
The Tongue is Mightier than the Sword

As far as pleasing her is concerned, your best love muscle is in between your teeth, not your legs. Most women report achieving greater sexual pleasure, and increased likelihood to orgasm, from oral sex than from penetrative intercourse. And there’s an anatomical reason for this. Most of her sensitive nerve endings are located externally, on the clitoris and around the vaginal opening. The most important technique in delivering satisfying oral sex is for you to (at least pretend) to enjoy it. This will help rid her of the embarrassing feelings sometimes associated with this incredibly intimate act.