Love & Lust
Where you can find helpful articles on girls, (obviously) and perhaps not so obviously family and friends as well - how best to manage them in a healthy way where everybody wins. We'll discuss gender politics, how to pick a nice girl up, how to ignite the boundaries of all existence in the bedroom and how to be a decent person to all the above in the process - and encourage them in kind.
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Listening With Your Heart
A look of terror on the face of the person in front of you and a sense of dread as your panicked manoeuvres make little or no difference to the inevitable impact. Unfortunately, this describes the moment just before I crashed into another car a... More about Listening With Your Heart
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3 Secrets of Serial Daters
Have you ever known a guy who was a serial dater? Meaning, it always seemed like he had a woman to date, no matter the time or the place? There are lots of guys like that out there, but they are still by far in the minority of men. Most guys... More about 3 Secrets of Serial Daters
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Sex in the Office
It’s not likely to win you the Employee of the Month Award but nevertheless sex in the workplace is a fantasy for many. And as your dedicated sex columnist, I am honour-bound to give you the best advice for making your fantasies a reality. So... More about Sex in the Office
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What Women Want
At least once a day, I get an email from a guy somewhere who has read this column. He is begging for an answer to the most frequently asked question by men: “What do women want?” The way men think gets them confused about... More about What Women Want
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Dad in da house - pests
Pest control can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. Taking care of pests is a pest (usually) - here are some tips for busy dads to take control of pests so the little ones are not bothered by them. Things to consider: Don’t delay:... More about Dad in da house - pests
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How to Ask a Woman Out on a Date- 3 Tips to Warm Her Up to Say Yes to You
It’s kind of funny how overwhelming it can be for a man to ask a woman out on a date sometimes. I’ve known men who no one would ever question their toughness when it came to most things who would fret all about when it came down to... More about How to Ask a Woman Out on a Date- 3 Tips to Warm Her Up to Say Yes to You
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3 Steps to Giving Her Pleasure
At Sexgear.co.nz, we understand that women are complicated creatures. But at the crux of all the baffling things we say and do, and don’t say and don’t do, is one governing thing. Self-esteem. If we’re in a seemingly... More about 3 Steps to Giving Her Pleasure
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How to write a love letter
A love letter is a symbol of romance and will endure well beyond a bouquet of red roses. To all the men out there keen to make an impression on someone special thisValentine’s Day, you’ll want to pay close attention to these... More about How to write a love letter
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A dad's point of view - there is no such thing as quality time
One of my very first A Dad’s Point-of-View columns addressed the issue of Quality Time. It has become an “evergreen,” one of the columns that I believe has enduring value and that I send out to all new papers and web sites when... More about A dad's point of view - there is no such thing as quality time
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Attracting Women Anywhere You Go
One of the things that I see happening amongst guys that are kind of at their wit’s end about figuring out how to get a girlfriend is, they end up thinking that there is a lack or a scarcity of attractive women that are out there.... More about Attracting Women Anywhere You Go
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