Discussing :: how many times do you try when you keep getting it wrong


how many times do you try when you keep getting it wrong

when you seem to pick the the wrong ones and it ends in disaster
when do you give up
when do you try again

All joking aside Deane, if you've tried a couple of times and it's still not working, I'd go and try something (or someone) else. I don't know anyone that's had a fiery relationship that has ended, and then subsequently worked out on the second or third attempt.

I took his post to mean when do you give up trying to find someone.
Not, when do you give up with that particular person.

And I evidently, did not! You're probably right...


You give up when it hurts/sucks so much you don't want to continue trying. Then, in time, you forget and jump back on the insanity horse again. It's a cruel and vicious cycle.


I agree with Fiona it is a cruel and vicious cycle and can be totally heart breaking, but you take that risk in hoping that one day you will meet the one....what's that saying...with love comes pain...I think it is....but if you are flogging a dead horse and the cycle is out of control and you can't see any hope that is the time to say see ya and move on to brighter and better things.....


Why do I keep bashing my head against the wall? Because it feels so good when I stop....

don't stop keep doing......

Just reading that sentence gave me a headache.


If it doesn't hurt then it does you no good- Yeah Right- eh Tui ??

Well I'd rather give love ago and if it hurts well at least I tried instead of not giving it a go.....I'd rather be that person then just let that chance pass me by....but everyone to their own


To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead. If you don't have ago and your best friend beats you to the punch, you may regret it for the rest of your life. Don't be chicken shit, get out there.



A very shy guy goes into a pub on Valentine's Day night and sees a beautiful woman sitting alone at the bar.
After an hour of gathering up his courage he finally goes over to her and asks tentatively, "Um, would you mind if I brought you a drink?"
She responds by yelling, at the top of her lungs, "No, I won't sleep with you tonight!"
Everyone in the pub is now staring at them. Naturally, the guy is hopelessly and completely embarrassed and he slinks back to his table totally red faced.
After a few minutes, the woman walks over to him and apologises. She smiles at him and says, "I'm really sorry if I embarrassed you just then. You see, I'm a graduate student in psychology and I'm studying how people respond to embarrassing situations."
The man responds, at the top of his lungs, "No I will not pay $200!"

I wonder how she got that research plan passed the ethics committee...

...They probably paid the $200....lol


till you get it right!!!!!


Its not about the result...its about the journey you take to get there.


Ha, be in a house with a wife & three daughters it's an every day occurence. You learn to live with it, besides it keeps you on your toes. Definately the journey of life, lol.

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