Her Top 5 Fantasies

Sarah Gibson

Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official ‘sexpert’.

Men are not the only ones that fantasise about sex. Women may look sweet and innocent, but you may be surprised what goes on inside our heads! It’s more than likely your wife or girlfriend will have had an explicit sexual fantasy that she may or may not have been too ashamed to share. Fancy an insight? Then read this top five list, it is sure to mention at least one of her forbidden fantasies.

Making a Sex Tape
As unlikely as this may sound, most women will have fantasised about making a homemade sex tape at one time or another. Why then did she say no when you suggested it? Well, unfortunately, unlike Pamela or Paris, most women won’t live out this fantasy because they’re worried about how their ‘wobbly bits’ will look on screen. Add that to the fear of it somehow making its way onto the internet and hey presto you’re not going to be producing a porn flick with you and your partner in the starring roles any time soon!
Having a Sex Slave
She may want to tie you down and have you pleasure her with your tongue, or she might just want you at her sexual beck and call. Either way the sex slave fantasy is a very common one! Well who wouldn’t enjoy some time devoted entirely to their pleasure? Unlike some of the other top fantasies – with your help, this one has the potential to become a reality! Offer her your services and you may be surprised about the level of kink that you unleash - because this scenario appeals to her naughtier side.

Sex with Two Men
Just as you may enjoy the thought of two beautiful women tending to your every need in the bedroom, for a woman, being adored by two gorgeous men is an arousing thought. So it probably isn’t a surprise that this is one of the most common female fantasies. Some may simply fantasise about being pleasured by one man at a time, while others may imagine more hardcore acts like double penetration. Whatever the level of grandeur, this scenario is fun for a woman to imagine because it is so taboo. But don’t worry, most women in relationships realise that this fantasy is best left as just that – a fantasy.

Sex in Public

The idea of indulging discreetly in some sexy play, while random strangers pass by, is enough to get even the shyest girl turned-on. The thrill of breaking such a huge taboo and the fear of potentially getting caught can contribute to a very arousing fantasy.

Safe Rape
Safe or consensual rape is a massively popular fantasy among women. This plays out very differently from a real rape scenario. While it may be passionate and forceful the woman is always consenting and in control. She may imagine a gorgeous man seducing her, arousing her body and removing her clothes while she protests; but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it, and inevitably will have an incredible orgasm! This female sex fantasy is so popular because it allows a woman to have wild and dirty sex, without the guilt that often follows.

Many women want to do more than just fantasize about their sexual desires – so why not share your fantasies with your partner and ask her to do the same with you. If you are both comfortable, then try turning your fantasies into a reality. You may not get it right the first time but learning about each other’s deepest desires can be a very sexually satisfying experience.

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  • avi says
  • Wings says
    Everyone says men are dirty and all they think about is sex... bollocks I say, women are worse, whether or not they'll admit to it, they're just a little bit more discreet about it.
    • New Member says
      that is the nost truth i have herd in weeks
    • Crayfish says
      and yet not once has a girl let me have more than a picture.
    • Ron says
      As a publisher of 9 Texas regional swinger magazines, for the last 15 years, I figured out long ago that women are more sexual than men. They are eager for sexual excitement in ways men would be scared to try. Even the shiest of girls have sexual fantasies that would make men blush. And, while few if any men actually try to live out a fantasy, most women are more than willing to try them. One way to have a woman fall in lust with you is to get her to reveal a sexual fantasy and then admit you have sexual fantasies too, but are to inhibited to try them. That opens the flood gate for her to tell you more about hers and try one out.

      In doing articles for the magazines, I can not tell you the stories I have heard and the situations I have gotten into.
    • Brian says
      Thanks Sarah
      Another great article.

      Yet I consider the utmost important word was missing from article and replies to date...T R U S T.

      I think that TRUST is possibly why so many fantasies are never expressed, let alone experienced.

      With trust, anything is possible..add in love, and there is often no limit to what a couple can achieve.
      Keep up the articles.

      In my experience (blush) bi ladies are many times more sexually outgoing than straight ladies too.

      Bi ladies will usually choose a man who is clean of body and mind.

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