Discover the P-spot

Sarah Gibson

Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official ‘sexpert’.

So there has been lots of talk about the Woman’s G-spot – where it is, how to find it, and how to turn a woman into putty by using it. However there hasn’t been that much discussion on the male g-spot, and I have a sneaky suspicion that a few of you may not even know you have one... so here goes!The male g-spot or p-spot is the name given to a males prostate – and luckily for you it is easier to find that a woman’s g-spot. I realise that for some of you the idea of exploring this area may be taboo, but if you keep an open mind when reading this article, it may just provide you one of the best orgasm’s you have ever had!


Read on as I give you the lowdown on the male G-spot and what it can do for your sex life.

Where is the G-spot

The male G-spot isn’t all that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back is generally considered to be the most comfortable position for this, so you’ll probably want to make use of the bed or perhaps a large sofa. The process will be easiest with your legs elevated, which you can do by simply leaning your legs against the wall behind the bed or draping them over the back of the sofa. If you’re still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.

Once you’ve made yourself as comfortable as possible, start by gently massaging the area surrounding your anus. Most men enjoy having their taint (also known as the perineum) stimulated, and that can certainly be incorporated into this process. Use the soft pad of your index finger while exploring, and be gentle. As you relax further, lube your finger up and let it gently brush across the surface of your anus. Repeat this move several times, each time increasing the pressure slightly. When you’re comfortable enough to begin probing, you should keep things slow and gentle, taking care to relax your sphincter during the process. Once you’ve come in contact with the male G-spot, you’ll recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.

How to stimulate it

Remember that comfort is important – have a nice hot shower first – not only will you feel better clean, it also should help you to relax!. If you’d like to take that one step further, try using an enema.

Once you’re ready for stimulation, there are a number of methods you can use, if you are a first timer – keep things simply; a finger will be sufficient for beginners. Regardless, you’ll want a good supply of lubrication on hand, and you’ll want the type specifically created for anal play.

It will take some experimentation to discover what works best for you in terms of stimulation. Return to one of the positions mentioned earlier (lying on your back with your legs and backside elevated) and repeat the steps you used to located the prostate. As you prepare to stimulate your G-spot, keep in mind that techniques vary greatly. Some men enjoy gentle thrusting movements, and some prefer intense, constant pressure on the prostate itself. Change it up a little, and keep experimenting until you find what works for you. The key is to give your body the chance to react and respond; take your time, the orgasm is worth it. It’s also important to note that you may not find any of these methods pleasurable during the first exploration, and that’s perfectly normal; you can always try again in the future.

Just remember that enjoying anal stimulation doesn’t mean that your gay... but it can give you great orgasms!

What else should i know?

1.     Use what you already have....your Finger

We’ve already mentioned this one, but you shouldn’t limit this method to solo exploration. Believe it or not, many women enjoy performing this type of stimulation in the bedroom, particularly when the resulting orgasms for their partner can be so powerful. If you’d like to try something highly erotic, have her give you a blow job while she stimulates your prostate.
Extras for experts: Brace your hands against the back of a sofa and bend over at a 90-degree angle. Spread your legs apart and have your woman get on her knees in front of you. This will allow her to perform oral sex while still being able to stimulate your prostate.

2.     Rim job

There was a time when most women had no idea what a rim job was -- those days are long past, and most are quite savvy with the technique these days. If you’d like to add a little extra ecstasy to your next sex session, bring up the subject of reciprocal rim jobs. It’s quite simple, really: When you’re both fresh out of the bath, use your tongue to gently probe each other’s anuses. The sensation is truly incredible and you’re both sure to enjoy it.
Extras for experts: Magnify your orgasms by manually stimulating each other during the rim job; toying with her clitoris should lead to a powerful climax for her, and a well-timed hand job will guarantee your own.

3.     Sex Toys

If you’d like to combine sex and prostate stimulation, try a classic butt plug which are one of the simplest options available on the market. They can be used during blow jobs or actual intercourse. Butt plugs come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so simply choose the size that meets your requirements.  Or try a toy specifically designed for Prostrate Massage

Extras for experts: If you’d like to experience something truly incredible, work your PC muscles while penetrating your woman. This will stimulate the male G-spot further than you could possibly imagine.

4.     Lubricant

As with all sexual acts, remember lubricant, lubricant and more lubricant.  There are many different types of lubes on the market – some designed specifically for anal stimulation like Anal Eze or Anal Lube.  Some are more desensitizing than others – so just pick the one that is right for you!

So, that’s it – I know that a number of you may not be immediately comfortable with reading this type of exploration – but just remember that it is perfectly acceptable and in no way strange!  Guys that have ventured into this type of play find it amazing, and state that it leads to earth shattering orgasms – so if you feel like an adventure – I encourage you to try these tips!!



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  • Aww, bless you Sarah, my gf is reading this tonight!
    • Sarah G says
      Thanks for the feedback :) Hope it was helpful.
    • HairToday says
      ...just a little worried they may find the S-spot.
      • JasonMantis says
        A one letter acronym that I have NO interest in finding the meaning of!
        • DeeDee says
          cmu....if he farts when your doing thee old rim job...that would just be wrong!
        • I agree with this, and it works in a nice way specially to have multiple orgasm for a male. i worked it out and just today i got very interesting result, i posted below comments on another post, but felt worth to link with this discussion

          It is 100% possible for a male to get multiple orgasm, i could make it finally after a lot of learning and last two days i could practice it easily, today i learned how to move it to the 100% climax exactly like with ejaculation but without ejaculating. It happened with

          No partner

          while sitting on driving seat it works so great - may be the g-spot stimulation is easy while sitting giving pressure to this area

          bladder is 80% full - gives move pressure and may help to bring g-spot stimulation faster

          just concentration on genital area

          No ERECTION (may be 20% or less) easy to control ejaculation by keeping it in this state like relaxing muscle like when urinating and bring the feeling at this state

          after 1st 100% climax, could make it every 30sec, it passes 5-8 pulses / waves every time

          during argasm with ejaculation you feel ha......ha........ha.......
          in this you feel ha.ha.ha. the phase of ejaculation missing

          no tiredness to any muscle, can make it as many times as we want one after another

          so fast to bring it back even after 1hr, since no ejaculation

          at a point you cant control it in public places, since difficult to take the mind from that state of fun, so it goes as it is and i could make it while standing in public few times today

          after my experience, i thought to search for any writing on this interesting topic and found this article, thought to share my experience to the readers, i am thinking to write a good essay on how to make it and post to the guys who are interested.

          I believe its much easier for females by the same way of practice and concentration.

          finally if any one says it is not possible for a male to get multiple orgasm, it is wrong and it does exist in real.

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