5 Things You Should Know About Her Orgasm

Sarah Gibson

Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official ‘sexpert’.

Imagine this is sex school. This is one of the most important lessons you will learn. The female orgasm, much like the female mind, is a complex phenomenon that is hard to understand. But pay attention to the following insider’s tutorial and you you’ll soon work your way to the top of the class.

**delirium tremens**

Good Things Take Time

Studies suggest that it can take a woman anywhere between 15-40 minutes to orgasm via sexual intercourse. On the contrary, a man may be able to reach climax in as quick as 2 minutes. As a result, many women are so preoccupied with taking too long that they will fake climax or simply go without. But relaxation is an essential ingredient in female orgasm. So, if you are interested in your woman’s sexual satisfaction, you need to make it known to her that you are just as happy as she is to take all night. Start the evening with a massage and you’ll help her get in the right frame of mind.

Congratulate Her Nakedness

The female orgasm is as much an emotional experience as it is a physical one. So while her clothes seem like an orgasm obstacle to you, for her, it’s the exposed feeling of being naked that might be inhibiting her climax.  And while you think it’s obvious that you find her body sexually attractive, she honestly doesn’t know it, until you tell her, about 100 times. So when she undresses, look at her lovingly and lustfully, and tell her what you think of what you see.

We’re Always Multi-tasking

No it’s not a myth. For some women, it’s possible to juggle 2-3 orgasms at once. So why it may be a road long travelled, once you get her there, you can definitely make the destination worth the journey. There are two types of multiple orgasms for a woman. The one that you have the most control over is the sequential orgasm, where orgasms are separated by a 2-3 minute interval. To encourage sequential multiple orgasm, continue to kiss and caress her after her first climax. Leave her genital region alone so that her clitoris has time to desensitise. After her breathing has slowed, start to pay her clitoris some gentle, digital attention. If she responds positively then her refractory period has passed and it may only be a few seconds before another orgasm occurs.

You’ve Got Two Shots

It may be a more complex task getting your female partner to climax than it is to get yourself to, but at least you’ve got two chances.  Women can reach climax via external clitoral or internal g-spot stimulation. What’s more, technology is on your side. There are a series of gadgets that you can use to help you target both areas at once, significantly increasing your chances of the achieving the desired result. The world famous rabbit vibrator is a global top-seller and it’s not surprising why. Because it stimulates both erogenous zones at once, the rabbit is a bedroom essential for many single women. So why not bring one into your relationship? Because it’s not how you get her there that counts.
    
The Tongue is Mightier than the Sword

As far as pleasing her is concerned, your best love muscle is in between your teeth, not your legs. Most women report achieving greater sexual pleasure, and increased likelihood to orgasm, from oral sex than from penetrative intercourse. And there’s an anatomical reason for this. Most of her sensitive nerve endings are located externally, on the clitoris and around the vaginal opening. The most important technique in delivering satisfying oral sex is for you to (at least pretend) to enjoy it. This will help rid her of the embarrassing feelings sometimes associated with this incredibly intimate act.

 
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  • grant says
    awesome article, i think guys tend to often go into to sex with the wrong mindset which is pleasure for themselves, however going with the opposite mindset can and will fall majorly in your favor. Instead of tryna get your clothes off as quick as possible and get your dick in, try using a combination of slow warm breathing around her neck and ear area, running your finger tips lightly down her back, and running the tip of your tongue over her entire body, which will help her completely relax, making your job of getting her to climax a little easier. A simple 'rule' to follow would be not penetrating until AFTER she climax's, although this could be difficult in the beginning the skill of making a female climax before you penetrate will forever be in your favour.

    So with all that said, the bottom line is instead of having sex for your pleasure, become so good at pleasuring a woman's body rather than just plain 'fuckin' :D

    peace
  • Andrew says
    brilliant...
  • Tim says
    hmm i wonder how many guys actually listen to this and take it in. It is indeed true and you find a woman is mroe receptive when effort is put in and the emphasis isnt on 'you' getting off. It's like they say good things take time and then the rewards are even better. There are techniques and helps to talk openly about such things with your lady at the time.

    It's all about quality and not quantity, learn the right techniques and you could be in for the treat of your life.

    If you have ever seen a woman orgasm with a squirm from head to toe you will understand
  • suzi says
    awesome,very accurate I might add! and a few things I didn't know,saucy!!!
  • R says
    Women are so complicated.
  • Danmac says
    Hmmmm, might have to invest in one of those bugs bunny vibrators....what's up doc!
  • Fozzie says
    Always good things to remember
  • Phoenix says
    Thanks for the advice but I prefer to learn by trial and error myself :) Even bad sex is another day well spent.
    • grant says
      yeah i know wat u mean, well at least now u got anotha something to 'trial' out yea :D
    • And says
      Great tips !! Nothing is ever perfect, but with advice and patience you can deliver heaven
    • Good things take time haha what awesome article lol this will definitely be a bonus in the bedroom of love good advice big ups getfrank lol

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