What Do You Do When the Chemistry Fades Out?

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at www.geturgirl.com

You probably have had this experience before.  You are flirting with a woman,  and everything seems to be going great.  The chemistry is there,  she is smiling,  and so are you.  Then suddenly,  things start to take a turn.  The chemistry seems to be fading out.  What do you do now?


This is when the experience in you needs to kick in.  You have to be able to adapt,  so that when you are flirting with a woman and things seem to fade,  you can bring back that feeling and not lose a step.  Otherwise,  you will end up losing her somehow,  and trying to reel her back in will be tough to say the least.

Here are some tips on what to do when the chemistry fades out:

1.  Ask her a provocative question.

Sometimes,  the conversation just happens to get pretty dull and it loses steam and energy.  You can bring it back by asking her a provocative question or making a provocative statement of your own.  Don’t be too worried about offending her,  because if you are losing ground with her,  you need to do something to bring it back.

2.  Use physical contact to bring back the HEAT.

When there is a profound silence,  sometimes all it takes is the right touch to bring it back.  I like to use this moment to put my hands on her hips to see how she is going to respond.  A lot of times,  when the chemistry seems to fade,  it’s because you have missed a transition moment.  A transition moment is when you take the interaction,  and build up on it so that it starts to lead in a NEW direction.

3.  Use humor to bring her back into YOUR world.

Humor can be a great technique to use when there is a dead moment when you are flirting with a woman.  And better than just using humor is to tinge it with a little sexuality in there as well.  A sexual joke can make her laugh,  build sexual tension,  and make those cheeks of hers turn rosy red.  Whatever you do,  don’t let the chemistry fade out for good,  because then there is not a whole lot that you can do to bring it back.

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