Ways to Make Her Want You Sexually

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at www.geturgirl.com

One of the biggest disconnections men and women have is in what makes them feel sexual attraction. As a guy, it’s pretty simple really. Like what you see? Well, then you are probably sexually attracted to her. For a woman, it’s not nearly as cut and dry. Women will see guys that they think are physically attractive but they would never even entertain the idea of going to bed with him. What is it and what do you need to be doing to make a woman feel sexually attracted towards you?

The Kiss

Of course it is true that physical features and looks do play a role in whether or not a woman feels sexual attraction towards you, it’s just not as much as it is for guys. While looks may make up 75 or 80 percent of the weight on whether or not you find a woman enticing, it is about the opposite for women. Looks might only make up about 20 or 25% of the equation.

Here are some tips on how to create sexual attraction with women and make her really desire to be with YOU:

1. There has to be chemistry with a woman if she is going to really find you sexually appealing.

Have you ever heard a woman talk about a guy she thinks is really nice, even a great guy, and yet, she does not want to date him? Most of the time, she will say something to the tune of, there was no chemistry there. But what does that really mean? Well, it’s hard to really describe that kind of chemistry, but what it alludes to is the fact that she did not feel any “sparks” with you. You have to make a woman feel that chemistry if you want to make her desire to be with you.

2. She needs to feel that you are in control of the situation.

If you come across as being “timid” when it comes to sex, if you shy away from talking about it, or you are the kind of guy who never makes the move to escalate things… you need to make a change. Now, be careful to note that this is not about learning to “dominate” a woman, that’s not what I mean at all. It’s about being the leader, the one that leads things into the bedroom. And if you are the kind of guy that shies away from sex, then how is she ever going to see you as leader in the sack?

3. Pull a role reversal and make her see YOU as being hard to get.

Sometimes a role reversal can be a good thing and when it comes in the context of YOU being the one that is playing hard to get with her, it can be a very good thing. When a woman sees that she is going to have some fun chasing after you and working to make you want her, then it’s easy to make her feel sexual attraction towards you.

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  • Nighthawk says
    These suggestions are good, but really are aimed at the younger set.
    Being an older male married to an older lady, I cannot see these working too well.
    Unfortunately as we get older, our senses of taste, smell, and sight diminish, and our capacity for strenuous activities and exertion decline. So, naturally, our sexual sensations and the ability to perform sexually will decline.

    On the bright side, it is well-documented that older women experience fewer sexual problems than men as they age.
    So I might still be in with a chance!! lol

  • Ebbz says
    Read "The Game" by neil strauss. Anyone can get laid using his and other PUI's (Pick up artist) methods!

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