Turning on a woman sexually is something that all straight men want to be able to do. And sometimes we trick ourselves into believing that we know how to do this without ever really thinking too deeply on it. The problem with that is, it’s not always true. See, most guys learn what they know about turning on a woman from the worst sources. They learn from buddies who know about as much as they do. They learn from movies that are set up to appeal to what guys want to see… not to what really works to turn on a woman.

So, the uncomfortable reality is… most men are not as skilled at turning on a woman sexually as they like to think they are. And what is the reality of not being able to turn on a woman sexually? I think you know the answer to this one. You either won’t get nearly as much action as you want or you might end up losing a woman you are dating just because she is not getting the pleasure and satisfaction that she desires from you.

Either way… You LOSE!

Here’s a little advice on how to turn a woman on sexually:

1. She does not get turned on by the same things that get you going.

If you take away one tidbit from this article, this should be it. Women don’t get turned on by all of the same stuff that men do. So, if you approach trying to turn her on and you do it using techniques and methods that get you going, there is a really good chance that it’s NOT doing the trick. You want to really be able to get that chiseled into your mind and make sure that it stays there.

2. The environment plays a big role for her.

One really stark difference that applies to almost all women you are going to meet is… the environment does play a huge role in whether she gets turned on or not. If she is in an environment that she does not quite feel comfortable in, then chances are, it’s not going to be a good place to try and get her turned on. For this, you have to get a good feel for her personality, because not every woman likes the same environment. Some are more adventurous than others.

3. Conversation leads to stimulation.

Both men and women can get really turned on by conversation, but for women, it takes a little more than it does for a guy. A woman could just flat out say the words… “I want you” and that would probably be more than enough to get you turned on, right? Well, for most women, you need more than three words. You need to be descriptive and creative. You need to kind of set up an image in her mind, something that she can feel and see.