There’s no doubt about it, texting has becoming an everyday part of most people’s lives now. Even my 60 year old mom knows how to send text messages. Because it has become such an integral part of our lives, especially amongst the under 30 crowd, a lot of guys wonder, is texting a good way to attract women. And there are a lot of guys who swear that this is one of the best ways to attract a woman. So, is it?

Hate to say it, but I disagree with the idea that you can use texting to attract a woman. You can easily use it to catch up and touch base with a woman, you can use it to add a little humor to her day with a funny comment, and you can even brighten up her day by sending her a little uplifting text message every now and again.

But does it really ATTRACT women?

Well, if it attracted women, then that would kind of imply that all you needed to do was get a girl’s cell phone number and start sending her messages. Say that out loud with me now, getting her number and just sending away text messages. Do you really think that this is a good way to gain rapport, build up sexual tension, or attraction?

If it were, then there’s no reason why you couldn’t just blast away messages on any social website and attract women. I mean, it would be the same thing pretty much. And you have to have her phone number to send her a text, so why not just hit the send button and call her up and get REAL interaction with her?

Look, texting is a great little tool to stay in communication with someone, but you have to remember what it really is. Words on a tiny little screen. And half the time, it’s incomplete words. Words on a screen can be interpreted ANY way the person receiving them wants to. So, if it is going to have any effect on attracting her, she’s already got to be feeling SOME attraction for you.

Obviously, there is an exception to this rule. A really lonely woman might just be happy to get a text from a guy, much like she would probably be happy to get a Tweet or a Poke, but if you want to go for quality women… the text is mostly good to keep in touch and for quick little things like… Be there at 8.

Consider this: If a woman receives a text message from a guy she barely knows and it says something like… I miss u, what’s her reaction going to be? A little weirded out, probably.

Now, say she gets the SAME message from a guy she’s been seeing for the last few weeks and she is really attracted to? Same words, completely different context and reaction from her.

So, is texting a good way to attract women?

Not really. It is a good way to keep in touch and send a random one liner here and there to make her laugh, keep her thinking about you, or build UP any attraction that she is ALREADY feeling for you.

There’s much better ways than just sending text messages. If you are serious about learning how to attract women and you want to start getting dates right away…