How to Get a Girlfriend – 7 Tips to Make Yourself MORE Attractive to Women

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at

Struggling to get a girlfriend can be devastating to a man. When you feel that you are at the end of your rope trying to figure out different ways to get a girlfriend, you can easily make yourself go batty. Some guys will rely on tricks to make a woman fall for them, and hope that the women they meet will fall for them. Other men just seem to be a natural with women and have no problems at all figuring out how to get a girlfriend. Well, if it is not apparent already, then I think you can see that being one of those men that can naturally attract women is definitely the way to go

Here are 7 tips that you can use to make yourself more attractive to women and make it easier to figure out how to get a girlfriend:

1. Work on your inner game.
Your inner game is more important than any clever line that you could ever come across. If you want to know how to naturally attract women, and you see that some men do seem to have this ability, you will also find that they all have their inner game in check. They are confident, content, and in control of their lives. They are not the kind of guy that complains about how hard it is to attract women. Instead, they just seem to be able to go through life with their head up high and women will naturally respond top these traits and qualities.

2. Work on your outer game.
Appearances are definitely not everything, but they are something. You cannot expect to get a girlfriend easily walking around looking like you just rolled out of bed and have yet to take a shower. Keep yourself clean, well groomed, and smelling good and you should be able to easily attract attention from women. Some guys go a little bit overboard and are more worried about how they look than most women are, and you really do not want to come across this way, either.

3. Learn how to approach women.
Guys that are able to get a girlfriend easily have no problem at all approaching women. They are not talking themselves out of approaching a woman inside their own head, they just go about it. If you have a hard time approaching women, then you want to work on clearing out your mind and stop thinking about all of the possible things that could go wrong when you make your approach. Be casual and let your demeanor shine through and show that you are not going to just drop a line on her or sweat her every move and you should be fine.

4. Learn how to start a conversation with a woman.
Starting the conversation with a woman can be hard to do at first, but the more times that you find yourself approaching women, the easier and more natural you will feel. Talking to women is a little different than shooting the breeze with your fellows, as you want to make her start to feel attraction for you. You want to make a woman feel like she just cannot get enough conversation with you, so that she either wants to keep the night going, or at least hands you her phone number.

5. Flirt with her.
If you are not used to flirting with women, then this is another area that you NEED to work on. Some guys will find that it is hard to flirt with a woman, especially if they do not have a whole lot of experience with women, but this is one of those things that you can build on with some experience. The whole point in flirting with a woman is to make her feel chemistry, comfortable with you, and waiting for MORE of you. Keep it fun and don’t put any pressure on yourself or on her, if you want to make flirting with a woman EASY.

6. Use physical contact to build attraction with a woman.
Shy guys will usually have the hardest time doing this, but so will guys that seem to come on too strong with a woman. When you use physical contact as a way to flirt with a woman, then you can build attraction with her VERY easily. The closer that you can get to a woman, the more intimate things will become, naturally. Instead of looking like you are deliberately trying to make a move on her, it will seem like it is just happening, which is a GOOD thing. Just do not try and be too forward with a woman that you have just met. You can easily turn a woman off by trying to come on too strong with using physical contact to build attraction with her.

7. Go for the close.
Depending on how things are flowing, you can either get a woman to give you her phone number, OR, you can get her to want to get a little more private with you. Do not be afraid to go for the close and at least get her phone number or a date in the future, as missing out on the right timing can have an adverse effect on whether or not a woman will think of you as just a nice guy or a guy that she wants to date. You can figure out how to get a girlfriend pretty easily, but if you do not go for the close, you are not going to get what you want.

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  • Lisa says
    Good advice - i'm gonna email it to my brother and pretend it's mine....nah....maybe...

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