How to Create Sexual Tension With Women – 5 Tips to Make a Woman Feel HOT For YOU

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at

How to create sexual tension with women is definitely not one of those things that anyone will usually take you by the hand and teach you. For most guys, experience is the only teacher of how to create sexual tension with women, and most men have limited experience at best. Of course, if you don’t make a woman feel sexually charged by being around you, then what hopes do you really have of being able to make her hot for you or want to date you?

Here are 5 tips on how to create sexual tension with women that will make a woman feel hot when she is around you:

1. You have to be a little less agreeable than the average guy.

You ever see a guy that is totally smitten by a woman and so, he will just agree with whatever she says and with whatever she wants to do? Maybe you have been that guy before, and you know that it does not lead you straight to the bedroom, but rather, straight to boredom. Well, guess what? You CANNOT be that kind of guy if you want to make a woman feel sexually aroused with you. You have to be a challenge to her in some way, and how can you do that when you are Mr. Agreeable?

2. You have to flirt with her in a way that escalates.

Most guys either go too fast or too slow when flirting with a woman. Well, this is not what you want to do if you want to make her feel sexual attraction when she is around you. Instead, you have to escalate your flirting and her attraction by controlling the pace and letting things take a natural progression. Of course, if you are controlling the pace, then it’s really not all that natural, but it will seem that way and that is what is important.

3. You have to be able to make yourself distant from her at the right time.

Most guys want to wait on a woman hand and foot when they are really into her. They want to be at her side all day long and call her on the phone throughout the day. Well, a little too much attention can be a BAD thing, especially if you want to create sexual tension with a woman. By making yourself distant to a woman, you are making her get the feeling of missing you and longing for you, both of which will make that sexual tension that much stronger and more intense.

4. She has to KNOW that you are the man.

You don’t want to ever be too timid or too passive with a woman if you want to make her feel sexual tension around you. The passive nice guy is not really the kind of thing that turns most women on. In fact, it’s what ends up getting most guys stuck in a place where they know that nothing physical is EVER going to happen with a woman. You have to assert yourself, not like a jerk, but as a man that knows who he is and what he needs to do to turn her on.

5. You have to know how and where to touch a woman.

This is definitely one of those things that you need some real world experience in. You can read all of the books and articles that you want about how and where to touch a woman the right way to turn her on, but until you get that experience, it all just sounds good. She needs to have something to look forward to in the bedroom, and by being able to touch her the right way, you can give her a little hint of what she can expect from you.

Sort by
  • Olivia says
    I hate to admit it but its true that over-availability reeks like bad cologne, while the right amount of distance and flirtation can make you weak at the kneesâ... and hot under the collar.

Post your comment

Want to have your say?

It's quick, easy and 100% free.



Endorsed Events

  • SpringBreak FIJI SpringBreak FIJI

    Surrounded by nothing but tranquil water, SpringBreak Fiji brings together the best of everything

  • The Fijian Cup The Fijian Cup

    The Pacific Touch Rugby festival (Fijian Cup and Kava Cup) is underway on November 2, 2017 and with support from Touch Fiji and...

  • Rock Island VANUATU Rock Island VANUATU

    Rock Island is an all inclusive fully immersive travel experience which was brought into the music festival scene by The Rock and...

  • TourismHQ TourismHQ

    With seven years and growing under their belt; TourismHQ has established and continues to deliver on their extensive wealth of...