Most guys seem to end up with the impression that they need to have a lot of money that they can blow in order to really attract women. They start to add up all of the costs of traditional dating, and next thing you know, they end up a little discouraged when they realize it can end up costing a small fortune just to try and get a woman to fall for them. To that I say… NONSENSE! Of course, it helps to have some spendable money. Just like it would help if you owned a Mercedes convertible or a Ferrari, but it is not a necessity., by any stretch of the imagination.
I can remember a time not too long ago when my financial situation was a LOT tighter than what it is now. I drove a 15 year old Volvo and barely had more than a little bit of cash after the bills were paid. Yet, I was still able to have no problems at all lining up dates for the weekend, and I had friends that were quite the opposite. They had nicer cars, much more spendable cash, and they had very few dates at all.
So, don’t think that it is impossible, because it is NOT. Like Slick Rick, the old school rapper once said, “Even in a Yugo I can take their woman from them.”
Here are some tips on how to attract women and NOT spend a fortune:
1. Buy clothes that are timeless.
A friend of mine spends a fortune every year on new clothes, because he thinks that he has to be one of the “trendy” guys in the club. So, when one year’s clothes are no longer in style, he has to go out and buy the new ones that are. Right now, he basically dresses like he belongs on The Jersey Shore, and when that fad passes, he will have to spend hundreds of dollars more to “update” his wardrobe. If you buy clothes that are pretty timeless, then you don’t have to worry about that, do you?
2. Be creative when you take a girl out on a date.
Near where I live there are quite a few State parks, and these places are great to take a woman. They all have beautiful scenery, they all lead to the Hudson River and have great views, and best of all, they don’t cost a thing to go there. Even women that don’t seem like they would enjoy the great outdoors seem to love these kinds of dates, and you can spend a couple of hours without spending a dollar on her.
3. Get HER to pay for YOU.
Women hate to hear this kind of thing, but let me tell you, it works all of the time. Especially when you are dating a woman that is “modern,” she will gladly pay for some of the dates. A couple of my buddies used to think this was impossible, till they saw it happen. There are many times when, if the woman offers to pay for something, I let her. It gives her the feeling of equality, the feeling of independence, and she doesn’t feel like you are trying to “buy” her affection.
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