How to Ask a Woman Out on a Date- 3 Tips to Warm Her Up to Say Yes to You

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at www.geturgirl.com

It’s kind of funny how overwhelming it can be for a man to ask a woman out on a date sometimes.  I’ve known men who no one would ever question their toughness when it came to most things who would fret all about when it came down to asking a woman out on a date,  especially if they were really fond of her.  It’s not uncommon for a man to get nervous or to feel stressed out about asking a woman out on a date,  but it’s something that you have to do if you are going to actually get the chance to date her.

a nice date spotYou’ve probably been expected to figure out women and dating the way that most men do- through trial and error and of course,  luck.  Going about it that way is not always the best method,  though.  If you want to ask a woman out on a date and have the best odds that she ends up saying YES to you,  you have to learn how to warm her up.

Here are 3 tips on how to ask a woman out on a date and warm her up to saying YES to you:

1.  She’s not going to say yes if she does not expect to have a good time with you.

If you were a woman and you knew that you could pretty much pick and choose which men you dated,  would you want to go out with someone that you thought would end up being a bore?  Probably not,  right?  Well,  that’s the reality that you have to face when it comes to dating.  You need to make her see that she can and will enjoy herself going out on a date with you.

2.  To get a woman to say yes to you,  you have to get good at flirting with women.

Some guys try to avoid flirting at all costs because they don’t feel comfortable when doing it.  Other guys think that they are experts at flirting with a woman,  when they really don’t end up getting the results that they want.  You have to be honest with yourself,  and you have to really learn how to flirt with a woman if you want to warm her up.  If you need to improve,  then by all means, learn HOW.

3.  You have to make her feel an ESCALATING amount of sexual attraction with you.

Going too strong too soon is almost always a deal breaker.  And not being able to get her to the level of feeling a strong amount of sexual attraction will keep you at the acquaintance or friend level with a woman.  If you want to practically guarantee that she will say yes to you when you ask her out on a date,  then you need to make her feel an escalating amount of sexual attraction.

 
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  • Alfie says
    Chris Tyler? I'm pretty sure that sleazy-looking guy in the sleeping bag is Rowan Spinks. This badly written article does nothing for the men you're trying to inspire other than lower their eloquence and intelligence and make them one step closer to a moronic chauvinist. You know the best tips to warming a woman up to saying yes?Being honest about your name/life/nationality and not pretending to be an Alpha-Male when in fact you're just a total Douchebag. Next contributor, please.
  • Hey Alfie, tell 'em what you really think!
    Mind you, that was pretty lame. Any girls want to comment on this?
  • Onaphobia says
    Well, it's all kinda true, albeit a little simplistic. No one is going to go on a date that won't be fun. Flirting is an awesome skill to have, even for people who are in relationships (though not with the idea of it leading to a date, of course). (People like to be around people who like them. If you think someone likes you you generally like them more.) And yeah, people who come on really strong are really off putting. You need to work out if the attraction is reciprocated, and to what degree, before you ask them out.
  • Amen about the flirting!
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