5 Tips to Get More Hits to Your Profile

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at www.geturgirl.com

So,  you want to know how to attract women online, huh?  When it comes to dating online,  there are a lot of similarities to the offline world.  In the offline world,  all a decent looking woman has to do is step into a bar and she can be assured that she will get a decent amount of attention.  Guys get none unless they are willing to really put themselves out there and be proactive about it.  Well,  it’s the same when it comes to dating online.  A woman can set up a profile and put a picture of herself on there and get hit after hit from desperate guys looking to meet a woman.  A guy can put his picture and profile up and get nothing, nada, zilch.

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Just like the offline world,  you have to be proactive when it comes to getting hits to your profile.  For most men,  you are going to be lucky if you get one message a week from a potentially interested woman.  Most women can get several per day.  It doesn’t seem fair,  does it?

Well,  who cares about what’s fair,  you want to get attention from women,  right?

Here are 5 tips on how to attract women online and get more hits to your profile:

1)  You need to make sure that you choose the right site for You.

Not every online dating site attracts the same crowd.  Some of them tend to get more people looking for really serious relationships that can lead to marriage and some of them tend to attract people just looking for a fling or a hook up.  You have to know what you want and see what each site has to offer.  Check to see if there is a free trial period or something so that you can get a feel for what the crowd is like.  This is important because to attract women to your profile,  you have to know what they are looking for.  More importantly to be satisfied,  YOU need to know what you are looking for as well.

2)  Choose your photos that you put up there wisely.

Like it or not,  women are going to get an opinion of you just based on what kind of photos you have up on your profile.  If you have a lot of photos of yourself partying like a frat boy and most of the women on the site seem to be looking for a long term,  stable relationship… don’t expect to attract to much interest.  Likewise,  if you are on a site where most of the women seem to want something more casual,  you might not want to toss up photos that make it look like you are too serious about life.

3)  Take some time to really think about what image you want to project before you set up your description of yourself.

For the most part,  guys are most interested in a woman’s photos and then all of the other stuff is secondary.  And for the most part,  it’s the other way around for a woman.  She’s going to read carefully all of the things that you put up in the spot where you get to describe yourself and your likes/dislikes.  Do you really want to tell her that your favorite movie is Showgirls and that your favorite hangout spot is the local strip club?

4)  Just having a profile up does not mean that you will generate a lot of interest,  so be active on these sites.

Look,  these sites are not magic bullets.  It’s not like you are going to put up your profile tonight and have 10 women hitting you up for dates this weekend.  Women are not the ones who tend to make the first move and nothing really changes when you are online.  You are going to have to be active on these sites and make the move.  And you need to be a little more creative than just sending a message saying that she is hot.

5)  Learn how to sell yourself.

Most people don’t want to look at dating as a way to sell yourself,  but in a sense that is what you are doing.  You are trying to make yourself look as fun and appealing and attractive as you can.  Get confident before you set up your profile and really work on selling yourself without making it a hard sale.  You can’t expect that a woman is just going to come across your online dating profile and just know that you are a great guy.  You have to let her see that and the way to do this is to sell yourself in a way.

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