Usually when you are heading out for a night at a club where you want to pick up women, you are not really expecting to meet the woman you are going to marry. If it does happen that way, kudos to you. However, let’s be realistic. Most of the time, you are hoping to be able to hook up if you can. You are hoping that you are going to be able to end up with a woman in your bedroom. Now, we all know that most guys don’t end up getting that result. They go home alone and that’s all that usually every happens. Want to know how YOU can make sure that doesn’t happen that often for you?
These 5 tips will make hooking up seem easy for you:
1. You do NOT want to come across like you are out for just trying to score with women.
It’s okay to want to have some casual sex every now and again. And you can definitely meet women who are cool with that happening. However, you are rarely going to meet women who are cool with you coming across like you are just out to score. You have to make sure that you don’t give out that vibe, or else you are likely to end up sharing your bed with… yourself and no one else.
2. Don’t be afraid to peacock a little bit, just don’t make yourself look ridiculous.
Peacocking is when you wear certain things just to attract attention. You’ve seen the guys who take this to the extreme before and they end up looking like clowns. You don’t want to come across like a clown if you want to seduce women. You want to be cool and that means that you need to make sure that you don’t look ridiculous. There’s nothing wrong with wearing things to make you stand out. However, you don’t want to come across as goofy or clownish.
3. Always be casual when you are first talking to a woman and THEN let things ESCALATE.
Casual flirting is the way to go when you first approach a woman and get her talking. You don’t want to jump the gun a little bit too early and make her painfully aware that you are trying to get laid. You want her to feel like there is real chemistry between you and her, because that is going to help lead things to bigger and better things later on in the night.
4. Get close but not too close when you are talking to her.
You don’t want to get so close that she feels claustrophobic with you around. You want her to have room to breathe. However, you also want to get close to her so that she gets used to you being in her personal space. Just be sure that you don’t get too close too soon and you should be good.
5. Make her feel like it’s You and Her and no one else.
The more you can make her feel like everything else doesn’t matter and it’s just you and her, the better. To do this, you can find some spot where you and her can be kind of alone and then you want to work on making her feel as much rapport and chemistry as possible. If you do this, then you can make her feel like you and her are the only two people that matter and you know where that LEADS.
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