If you have always found it to be a lot more difficult to attract a woman than you think it should be and you want that to change,  then you have to change your strategy up a little bit.  You can’t keep doing the same thing again and again and hope that you are somehow going to end up with a different result,  can you?  So,  what are some things that you need to do differently if you want to be able to attract a woman a little more easily?

Here are 3 things that I think you should start off with:

1)  Stop thinking about things before you approach a woman and just go ahead and do it.

It’s good to think things through,  but most of the time when guys are thinking before they approach a woman,  what they are really trying to do is to find an excuse for why they don’t have to actually go ahead and do it.  The reason for doing this is usually because it makes them feel uncomfortable to approach a woman and it is human nature to want to avoid things that make us feel uncomfortable.  However,  if you really want to see things change,  you have to do things that make you feel a little uncomfortable.

2)  Make it a point to try and create some sexual tension with her.

There are lots of reasons for why you want to work on creating sexual tension with a woman,  but the thing is… most men are not going to even bother trying to do this and that is usually why they fail to get where they want to get with a woman that they like.  if you can’t get yourself to work on building up some sexual tension with a woman,  you can’t really expect that she is going to end up feeling attracted to you,  at least,  not in the sense that you want her to.

3)  Don’t get tunnel vision for just one woman.

This can be hard to do,  but it’s good if you really want to see things change.  The reality is that you can get to a point where you are really,  really good at attracting women and still end up getting rejected by some.  If you have tunnel vision and you have your eyes set on just one woman and she happens to say no to you,  what’s going to happen to your confidence?  It’s going to get shattered.  You do not want that to happen.  Try to make it a point to have an eye out for more than one woman.  You can be a one woman man all you want once you are in a relationship,  but until you get there… give yourself OPTIONS.