Intimate, foreplay-filled, orgasmic sex will certainly impress a woman - and keep her coming back for more. But an animalistic and spontaneous ‘quickie’ can take her breath away - so long as you do it right. Read on to discover how to make quickie sex enjoyable for both partners.

Sexpectations
Expecting your partner to experience explosive orgasms from a five-minute romp is somewhat unrealistic; and while some women will climax in that time, most won’t. The good news is that women can enjoy sex without reaching orgasm, and when it comes to quickie sex – it can be fulfilling simply because of the thrill involved in having sex unexpectedly or in forbidden locations.

Language
When initiating a quickie communication is an important tool, and if used well it can be just as good as foreplay for some women. This doesn’t mean giving a detailed description of what you would like to do to her, but simply whisper in her ear and tell her how hot she looks, how you can barely keep your hands off her, how you would like to tear off her underwear, and so on. This will boost her ego, make her feel like a sex goddess and hopefully get her turned on enough to accept your advances.

Show Her You Want Her
As well as whispering sexual suggestions in her ear, also show her that you want her. Kiss her passionately - a deep slow kiss will make most women go weak at the knees. And during intercourse make noises that communicate how good it feels. With quickie sex there is the danger that your partner will feel as though you a using her as sexual release, whereas if you make her feel desired (all of the time), she’ll be much more likely to indulge you when you suggest a five-minute session.

Lubrication
You may be turned on and raring to go but before you place your manhood inside your partner, make sure she is ready to receive you. Gently feel around her vagina with your penis or fingers to make sure she is lubricated before you move in. If she’s turned on, but that isn’t being reflected down south, consider applying a water-based lubricant.

Afterwards
With ‘quickies’ there is no real need to cuddle for ages afterwards; but if you want a repeat performance don’t ignore your lover either. Zipping up your pants and carrying on with whatever you were doing before isn’t going to make your partner feel good about herself - many women feel at their most vulnerable right after sex. So talk to her for a while, put your arm around her or include her in what you are doing.

When & Where
The great thing about quickies is that they can fit into a commercial break or be moments stolen when you least expect them, like when you first wake up, in the shower or on the kitchen bench before dinner. The possibilities are endless and you are only limited by your imagination!

Keep It Occasional
While a quickie can be exhilarating it’s important not to make a habit of it. Women will still want to engage in long-lasting love making. So only offering your services for five minutes at a time will soon get boring – for both of you.