So there has been lots of talk about the Woman’s G-spot – where it is, how to find it, and how to turn a woman into putty by using it. However there hasn’t been that much discussion on the male g-spot, and I have a sneaky suspicion that a few of you may not even know you have one... so here goes!The male g-spot or p-spot is the name given to a males prostate – and luckily for you it is easier to find that a woman’s g-spot. I realise that for some of you the idea of exploring this area may be taboo, but if you keep an open mind when reading this article, it may just provide you one of the best orgasm’s you have ever had!
Read on as I give you the lowdown on the male G-spot and what it can do for your sex life.
Where is the G-spot
The male G-spot isn’t all that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back is generally considered to be the most comfortable position for this, so you’ll probably want to make use of the bed or perhaps a large sofa. The process will be easiest with your legs elevated, which you can do by simply leaning your legs against the wall behind the bed or draping them over the back of the sofa. If you’re still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.
Once you’ve made yourself as comfortable as possible, start by gently massaging the area surrounding your anus. Most men enjoy having their taint (also known as the perineum) stimulated, and that can certainly be incorporated into this process. Use the soft pad of your index finger while exploring, and be gentle. As you relax further, lube your finger up and let it gently brush across the surface of your anus. Repeat this move several times, each time increasing the pressure slightly. When you’re comfortable enough to begin probing, you should keep things slow and gentle, taking care to relax your sphincter during the process. Once you’ve come in contact with the male G-spot, you’ll recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.
How to stimulate it
Remember that comfort is important – have a nice hot shower first – not only will you feel better clean, it also should help you to relax!. If you’d like to take that one step further, try using an enema.
Once you’re ready for stimulation, there are a number of methods you can use, if you are a first timer – keep things simply; a finger will be sufficient for beginners. Regardless, you’ll want a good supply of lubrication on hand, and you’ll want the type specifically created for anal play.
It will take some experimentation to discover what works best for you in terms of stimulation. Return to one of the positions mentioned earlier (lying on your back with your legs and backside elevated) and repeat the steps you used to located the prostate. As you prepare to stimulate your G-spot, keep in mind that techniques vary greatly. Some men enjoy gentle thrusting movements, and some prefer intense, constant pressure on the prostate itself. Change it up a little, and keep experimenting until you find what works for you. The key is to give your body the chance to react and respond; take your time, the orgasm is worth it. It’s also important to note that you may not find any of these methods pleasurable during the first exploration, and that’s perfectly normal; you can always try again in the future.
Just remember that enjoying anal stimulation doesn’t mean that your gay... but it can give you great orgasms!
What else should i know?
1. Use what you already have....your Finger
We’ve already mentioned this one, but you shouldn’t limit this method to solo exploration. Believe it or not, many women enjoy performing this type of stimulation in the bedroom, particularly when the resulting orgasms for their partner can be so powerful. If you’d like to try something highly erotic, have her give you a blow job while she stimulates your prostate.
Extras for experts: Brace your hands against the back of a sofa and bend over at a 90-degree angle. Spread your legs apart and have your woman get on her knees in front of you. This will allow her to perform oral sex while still being able to stimulate your prostate.
2. Rim job
There was a time when most women had no idea what a rim job was -- those days are long past, and most are quite savvy with the technique these days. If you’d like to add a little extra ecstasy to your next sex session, bring up the subject of reciprocal rim jobs. It’s quite simple, really: When you’re both fresh out of the bath, use your tongue to gently probe each other’s anuses. The sensation is truly incredible and you’re both sure to enjoy it.
Extras for experts: Magnify your orgasms by manually stimulating each other during the rim job; toying with her clitoris should lead to a powerful climax for her, and a well-timed hand job will guarantee your own.
3. Sex Toys
If you’d like to combine sex and prostate stimulation, try a classic butt plug which are one of the simplest options available on the market. They can be used during blow jobs or actual intercourse. Butt plugs come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so simply choose the size that meets your requirements. Or try a toy specifically designed for Prostrate Massage
Extras for experts: If you’d like to experience something truly incredible, work your PC muscles while penetrating your woman. This will stimulate the male G-spot further than you could possibly imagine.
As with all sexual acts, remember lubricant, lubricant and more lubricant. There are many different types of lubes on the market – some designed specifically for anal stimulation like Anal Eze or Anal Lube. Some are more desensitizing than others – so just pick the one that is right for you!
So, that’s it – I know that a number of you may not be immediately comfortable with reading this type of exploration – but just remember that it is perfectly acceptable and in no way strange! Guys that have ventured into this type of play find it amazing, and state that it leads to earth shattering orgasms – so if you feel like an adventure – I encourage you to try these tips!!
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