Ever wanted to have all of the best sex tips in one place? You’re in luck. This week I have put together my all-time top 20 sex tips. Read on for numbers 20 to 11 below and come back next week to catch the top 10!
20. Hold Hands
It’s a small gesture that means a lot. It is a signal to her (and the rest of the world) that you are together and proud of it. The feelings it invokes in her can even act as an aphrodisiac.
19. Compliment Her
Flattering your partner will boost her self-confidence and make her feel special. A woman that feels like this will be more open to your sexual advances – so you’ll reap the rewards! Try to compliment her around five times a day. The best compliments are the ones that are sincere.
18. Earn Your Right to Experiment
Most women take a little time to be comfortable with a sexual partner. So don’t ask to try out all of the positions/fantasies/scenarios you’ve dreamt up early in a relationship. Sexual experimentation is earned and requires time, tact, and trust.
17. Morning Glory
On average women need at least 14 minutes to reach a state of arousal that can lead to an orgasm. So if you want morning sex, be a gent and set an alarm; making sure you leave enough time before you need to get up.
16. Alfresco Sex
Try sex outdoors. If you’re worried about being seen or getting caught by passers-by, pitch a tent. Making love in the big-outdoors, even under canvas, can be a real thrill.
15. Sexy Shopping Spree
Take your partner shopping for some sexy lingerie or browse the internet together looking at sex toys. This is sure to get you hot under the collar and acts as great foreplay before you enjoy your new goodies together.
14. Don’t Play Mind Games
You’re not in high school anymore so don’t act like you are. If a woman that you really like gives you her number – call her within a day or two. Otherwise she’ll think you’re not that interested; or worse, that you’re an idiot for playing mind-games.
13. Light the Way
Many women are self-conscious of how their body looks and can’t relax during sex (because they’re too busy worrying that you’ve spotted that patch of cellulite). Bright lights are not all that flattering. So to lure your lady into bed, keep the lights low. Candle light is ideal.
12. Keep Your Cool
Yes a Megan Fox look alike may have just strolled passed. But that’s no excuse to turn into a drooling mess! Keep your cool and act like the mature male that you are. This will send the message that you are cool, calm, collected and 100% into your girl. She will notice and appreciate your reaction.
11. Tease Her
No don’t call her names! Instead use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Don’t tear her clothes off and get stuck straight in; take your time. Remove each piece of clothing slowly while kissing and caressing her skin. Tell her what you want to do to each section of skin before you do it. This is guaranteed to whip her up into a frenzy.
Don’t forget to log back on next week for the top 10.
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Run a hot bath and choose some 'sexy' things for her to wear, now in bed take your time, massage all over don't rush. Compliment her on her body, tell her how much she turns you on and slowly use oral and hands. You come last!
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