So you think you’re a cunning-linguist? Does your technique cause your girlfriend to have mind-blowing, hip-shaking, earth moving orgasms? No? Then read on for advanced tips to help you fine-tune your oral sex approach.
Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, lick the outer edges of your partners vagina along both sides; moving from her vaginal entrance up towards her clitoris. Repeat this technique - moving up and then down - to get your partner’s heart racing.
Gently hold your partners outer labia together with your lips and then run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time. This is a great way to up the ante and demonstrate your sexual prowess.
The outer third of a woman’s vagina is the most sensitive part. Target this sensitive area with your tongue by inserting it slightly into her vaginal opening. Try moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of her opening.
The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman’s anatomy and this technique lavishes it with the attention that it craves. Spread your partner’s outer vaginal lips with your fingers and then with a pointed tongue, gently flick around it. Feel free to combine this with other techniques, but remember that for most woman, clitoral stimulation is the only way for them to reach orgasm.
The Clitoral Suck
Now that you’ve warmed your partner up, you can move on to some more intense techniques. During these moves it’s important to find out what feels good for your partner, because any one of them may be too intense for her.
To perform the Clitoral Suck, spread your partner’s lips slightly to expose the clitoris. Then give it a quick little suck; drawing it into your mouth briefly before letting it go. Keep the suction gentle and your teeth away from her sensitive area to allow her to experience the full glory of this technique.
The Clitoris Hold
Take your partner’s exposed clitoris in your mouth and gently suck on it, then simultaneously flicker your tongue over and around it. Start off lightly and sporadically before developing a rhythm, and then speeding up the flickering and increasing the pressure to bring your lover to orgasm.
Trace the Alphabet
This tip is an oldie but a goody - try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on and around your partner’s clitoris. Your tongue will always moving in different directions and tantalise her sensitive nerve endings.
Just because you are using your mouth on your partner, it doesn’t mean that you can’t get your hands involved too. So explore your partner’s body by inserting a finger, or massaging her thighs or buttocks while you perform. The extra stimulation could send her over the edge. If you do want to add even more stimulation, then consider flavoured lubricants like Lifestyles Strawberry Lube or orgasm gels like Durex Play O, that are safe for use during oral sex.
Try some - or all of these techniques to give your partner an unforgettable oral sex experience!
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