Nine Signs That Say She Loves You

Tonja Weimer

With a Masters in Human Development, Tonja is an columnist, coach, speaker and author. Her latest book 'Thriving After Divorce', offers insight on how to become a better person and getting through after a break up.

Are you crazy about her?  Do you sometimes wonder if she feels the same way about you?  Even though you might have tremendous chemistry, most people are amazed at how fast those heady feelings can disappear if other qualities are not present.  Being physically attracted to each other is important—but it doesn’t necessarily mean love exists.

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Does she love you?  Here are some behaviors that exhibit how she feels.  Keep in mind that these are in general, and this information assumes that your girl is not: addicted, abusive, married, living with someone else, or an outrageous flirt.   Once you are clear about those facts, here are the nine signs that speak louder than words:
 
1.    Communication
She calls you often, wants to know what you’re doing, and shares her day’s activities.  When you ask about her plans for the evening, or the weekend, or even the whole summer, she doesn’t hedge or put you off.  She is open and forthcoming. 
 
2.    Exclusivity
When she only wants to see you, and does not give you the “space” talk, as in, “I need my space,” and is not craning her neck to watch other men walk by, you have her attention.  She makes it known to you and to everyone else that she does not want to date other people.
 
3.    No Conflicting Messages
She makes you her one and only love interest and does not send you conflicting messages.  She does not say things like, “I’m in love with you, you are my soul mate, I can’t live without you…AND…I saw my ex yesterday and I think I still have feelings for him.”  This kind of message will drive you crazy.  You will feel like the rubber ball attached to the paddle by a slim rubber string, batted back and forth.  The real message that is being sent is: come here… and go away.  You can’t win.  But if she loves you, her words and thoughts are straight forward and you do not feel batted around.
 
4.    Family and Friends
She makes plans to introduce you to her family and friends.  When you meet them, you realize they already know a lot about you because she has obviously talked about you.  Most of them (except the few jealous ones) are warm and friendly and genuinely excited for her that she has found happiness.  
 
5.    The Future
When she talks about her plans for the future, she automatically includes you in them.  She has places she wants to take you and sights she wants to show you.  She follows through on her suggestions.  She might also mention marriage and children, if only in an abstract way, to evaluate your reaction.
 
6.    Affirming
She speaks often of how proud she is of you.  She does this privately and publicly.  She thinks the work you do is the most important thing in the world and loves for you to tell her about what you accomplished during the day. She is happy to help you with your work in any way she can.
 
7.    Gifts
She has noticed what you like, admire, and read, and brings you gifts that reflect what she has observed.  The quality of her gift shows the level of her perception about what you like.  If she is rich, she may buy you expensive presents.  If she is not, she may send cards, books, or poems.  If she is not rich and she sends a Porsche or a pricey suit, she’s got some problems.  Have the grownup conversation with her about how you don’t like gifts she can’t afford.  That would be a very loving thing to do.
 
8.    Touchy
Your girl may be the touchy type, which is not the hyper-thin-skinned poor sport, but the warm, snuggly sort.  She may show her love and affection by holding your hand when you’re together, giving big long hugs, frequent kisses, and putting her arm through yours.  Her favorite date may be a movie at home so she can cuddle up with you.
 
9.    Helpful
Another overt sign of love is how helpful she is.  When she does the garbage detail, helps in the yard, helps you prepare a speech, or cooks your favorite meal, she wants to be in your life!
 
To move these feelings along, and to better understand where she is, ask her what she wants her future to look like.  If she has you in it, and a time-line for certain events that bind you together, the ball is in your court.  What do you want?
 
Remember: in order for love to sustain itself, it needs to flow back and forth.  If you do all of the above also, your relationship should be on track.

 
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  • taare says
    i think Eddy Murphy summed this all up in delirious, she loves you when she makes that sound that like "oooooooooooohhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaa
    • DeeDee says
      too bad in reality not many men can get their partners to achieve such sounds lmao
      • New Member says

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        • New Member says

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          • New Member says

            My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
            email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
            cell; +2348155425481
            • New Member says

              My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
              email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
              cell; +2348155425481
              • New Member says

                My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
                email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
                cell; +2348155425481
                • New Member says

                  My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
                  email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
                  cell; +2348155425481
                  • New Member says

                    My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
                    email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
                    cell; +2348155425481
                    • New Member says

                      My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
                      email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
                      cell; +2348155425481
                      • New Member says

                        My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
                        email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
                        cell; +2348155425481
                        • New Member says

                          My mom was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 20 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found Dr obodo. He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, Dr obodo. for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spellcaster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.reach dr obodo
                          email; templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk
                          cell; +2348155425481
                        • B-Rad says
                          All this fits with a girl I know. Except she has a boyfriend. Does she love me or him? I am crazy for her but don't want to do anything about it, in case things get complicated and I lose her. So confused about it??
                          • BraD says
                            Tight spot. No advice, but i wish u luck
                            • New Member says
                              Anytime you are near her, avoid eye contact and feign being really busy, if she tries to engage you further, you should have your answer.
                              • DeeDee says
                                If she is still with the guy and hasn't given any indication that she is going to leave him then mate I think she is playing you like a puppet master
                              • New Member says
                                i really luv her..........hope she too luvs me
                              • New Member says
                                Wous
                                I have spent a total of 2 years working with spell casters just to bring back my husband home, am no one without him, we have been married for 12years now and even before we got married we dated for 8years, we started from our early age and now, i just cant live without him, he has gone so deep inside of me that he is now part of my life. I have spent a total of 4000 British pounds to spell casters and didn't get results. so i contacted this last one who i saw her web site that gave me courage to contact her though i was faithless due to my previous experience with those bastards.
                                I gave her a try and chance and to my greatest surprise her spell brought my husband back in about 5days after her spell and it went just as she has told me, my husband went to my family to plead with them so that they could beg me to accept him back. with so much joy and happiness in my heart to see my companion i didn't hesitate a bit.
                                I finale got relieved and my life is back to the way it was and even more exciting. I now see that good people are still out there willing to help you bring your happiness to reality. I would on her behalf guarantee you of her spell will work because my did and it works so fast. you can contact her on priestessifaa@yahoo.com,
                                priestess Ifaa is the real one.
                              • New Member says
                                i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Great Odumako for bringing back my husband who left me and the kids for almost three months within the period of 48hours Great Odumako was able to bring him back to me.. i am very much greatful for restoring peace in my marital home i pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like mine. for help you can reach him on his email address: odumako@gmail.com
                              • New Member says
                                i am very happy for what this great spell caster has done in my life today i was sick for some years now i try many helper but know one could help but one faithful morning i saw a testimony for the woman he help so i encourage my self and contacted him for help he told me to tell him my problem so i told him but he ask me for money but i was discourage but later on something just came to my mind and said try him so i now send him the money 3days later he send me some package to use when i use it a week i was totally heal i think if you have any kind of problem he can also help you out here is the email address, cocomadevil.666@gmail.com
                              • New Member says
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                              • New Member says
                                I am sorry for putting this message here like this. I am just here to share my experience and to help who might want this kind of help. I have been scammed by fake spell casters that promised me results and get my money trying all my means to save my marriage. I was so desperate to keep my family as my husband wanted a divorce. I decided to go spiritual as all I tried was not working. I seek spiritual helps to get things right but all I talked with never did anything for me. I was taken advantage of and I lost all my saving on that. I talked to a friend that was able to make me meet the help I searched for. when he said he will help, I never believed but I'm more than grateful now for giving him my last shot. me and my family we are more than happy now and my husband is back, You can get this great one on email
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                              • New Member says
                                My name is Mary Eastwood I am married with two wonderful kid and I am a Canadian.my husband and I have been married for 10years and we were such a big happy family.But he started changing " for the worse " he looked at me like a stranger and he treat the kid like they weren't even his.I knew at ones that he had another woman.I hired a private investigator that cost me a lot.It turned out that I was right all along.I couldn't just believe it so I confronted him with the pictures I had but he denied it bluntly.He said she just just a girl he has some working project with and foolish of me I so believed him.But on bad day I caught them red handed at that moment my heart stopped for a while as I bust into tears.I was furious that I hit the whole so hard before I could ask why with my shakily voice my husband hit me so hard.I have never seen in his eyes so much hate before.I fell to ground crying my heart out it was so hurtful.He was no longer living with and our kids I still remember his words " keep the house and your sick kids "I wanted to drop dead but my lovely kids gave me strength to fight for what was my.He was asking for a divorce but I wanted to my husband back so I had to delay the process to buy time for myself so as to figure out a way to get him back.On a good day "god bless the internet "I stumbled on an ad of how a girl got her boyfriend back after he broke up with because of some girl with the help of a witch doctor or a spell caster at first I told myself it's scam but as more pressure from my husband lawyer increased I became desperate and gave it try .I contacted him with his email address she left in her ad.his mail were so had to his English was not so clear but he helped me any way off-course not for free he charged me and I pay every cent. thank the stars it work.I paid for the material which he used for the rite And when he claimed to have finished whatever he was doing I paid for his services.He sent me a hand written enchanting words and asked me to recite morning and night for seven day " as he said seven is the perfect number "I did just that but at first nothing happened out of frustration I sent all kind of insult to him even calling a low life scam.He said he could destroy the entire thing he did but he wouldn't so I can see how wrong I was.he said those enchanting words he gave me will make my husband see the demon in his new lover and its going to make him hurt badly.just a week later my husband was sued for physical abuse on his so called New girlfriend.he gave a black eye and didn't show remorse in the court house.just what the spell-caster had said " he would hurt her badly "he literally confessed that he hated her all of a sudden.All the witch doctor had did worked.Thank the stars she only wanted him to stay away from her so the judge asked him to pay $5000.after all this is trouble my looking husband came back asking for my forgiveness and I did without thinking it was all I wanted for him to come back to me and the kid.My husband and i have never since this kind of happiness before.He his as faithful to me and as a saint.I know cos I hear his friends say "what happened to the fun guy we know "so if you have a similar problem just contact odiaspirituallovespell@gmail.com bet you this one is not fake.You can only choose to believe me cos i haven't tried this spell thing before and now that I have i can only happily share with who ever is reading this. odiaspirituallovespell@gmail.com
                              • New Member says
                                My Name is Mr Gibson am from USA .I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 2 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail; odiaspirituallovespell@gmail.com i cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his email;odiaspirituallovespell@gmail.com
                                • New Member says


                                  I just broke up with my girlfriend a couple months back. I really love her and want to get her back. Its been about 4 months since we broke up. We had a fight and she said she loved me a lot before the fight and after the fight she said she did not have the same feelings for me anymore. I really need help to get her back so i contacted a spell caster on the internet and i explain my problems to him and he cast a spell for me and guarantee me of three days that she will come back to me,to my surprise the third day she come back to me and now we are getting married.i just want to say thank you zukutempleofsolution@gmail.com for helping me to get my ex girlfriend back to me and i am totally grateful.just in case you also need his help you can contact him on Email zukutempleofsolution@gmail.com he can also render help to you if you need him to..... jaloe

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