Following on from last week, here are the best bits of inner game I reckon I can give you. It’s time we got onto more practical stuff so here are keys things that will help you pick up a beautiful woman this summer holiday...

    * Some people won the genetic lottery and turned out good looking, other’s didn’t. Regardless, when it comes down to it, looks don’t matter. As we’ve discussed, it’s all about your attitude and how you present yourself. Confidence is key! Women will almost always get past looks if you’re fun and confident.
    * Don’t worry about what others think, no one is judging you (except when you dance, but who cares?!) Like I said last column, everyone is so busy worrying about what you think of them they really aren’t focusing on you.
    * Following on from this, instead of looking to the beautiful woman for approval, you be the one to give it to her. Do what we discussed earlier, push and pull... Make her validate herself to you.
    * You are on show. You must be an actor. Heighten your energy, be fun, friendly, outgoing. Be the best man you can be. Don’t drink too much.
    * Confidence is key. I’ve said this a million times and so it is. Women like a nice and charming guy but they don’t respect a weak guy. Be confident and have your own opinion. You need to demonstrate that you are an alpha male and that her genes will be protected when she is with you.
    * Your golden rule should be to leave her better than you found her. This is ESPECIALLY true after sex. Forget that Tucker Max bullshit. It’s your job to be good at sex, learn and improve how you do it, not be selfish and ALWAYS be super-gentle on the clit! Also, you MUST call her after sex. Make her feel special even if you have no interest in taking it further. DO NOT ruin her for the next guy. It’s best not to tell your mates, or if you do, don’t use her name. You don’t want girls to think having sex with you comes with social consequences. You’ll get a bad rep. (I’m VERY guilty of this. It does not pay.)
    * Give it a go! If you stand at the bar with no smile on your face being staunch, be prepared to have a proper pick-up dude walk in and game the hot woman. If you don’t approach and give it a shot, you will never get anywhere. JUST DO IT! You miss 100% of the women you never approach. Try your game, play the $2 coin game do anything, just interact!

Back in the new year. Good luck my friends. I hope I’ve helped and you pick up a hot summer romance, or three, or a gorgeous new girlfriend.

I’ll be at the Highlife Matakana experience cutting loose. See if you can spot me in the Heineken Zone...

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Ciao!