Why You Can Never Really ‘Get’ Women

Chris Tyler

Chris is an American dating columnist who is sharing his straight up wisdom on attracting, seducing and winning beautiful women. A bit of an alpha male himself check out his blog at www.geturgirl.com

Sometimes, a little lesson that we get taught when we are younger tends to help guide us in our lives later on. I can remember very fondly a girlfriend I had when I was about 18 who told me that I could never really ‘get’ her. This little phrase at the time seemed silly to me, but hey, what do you know when you are 18 years old, right? A few years later and I can reflect back on a little phrase like that and see the real wisdom in it. Are you lost as to what I mean?

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I’ll explain.

When guys find themselves challenged in their personal dating lives, a real common expression is that they don’t really ‘get’ women and they want to learn how to do this. Of course, in this context, getting women has less to do with getting dates, and more to do with understanding *every* aspect of a woman’s mind. And therein lies the real riddle to this.

You can never totally ‘get’ a woman.

Guys that have been happily married for 30, 40 years still get surprised by their wives all of the time. They ask her a question, thinking that they know what the answer will be… and she gives them one that totally takes them by surprise. And this is the way it really is when it comes to male/female relationships. Try as you might, you will never totally grasp all aspects of a woman’s mind.

How does this help you in terms of dating and attracting women?

Tons, really. See, one of the things that most men end up getting mixed up about is, they aren’t supposed to totally be able to predict what a woman will do, what she will say or how she will think about things. So, you have to be able to ‘roll with the punches’ and deal with it when she throws you for a loop.

If you can’t do this, you will end up becoming all insecure and confused.

And when you are confused and insecure, your ability to attract women goes down the toilet, really fast. If you assume that there is some way to totally understand a woman inside and out, and that you should be able to predict her every move… think again. That is some of the beauty of learning how to attract women. To learn how to roll with the punches and deal with the little surprises and still be able to keep her attracted to you.

If you can do this, then in no time, you will be able to get as many dates as you want, get second and third dates with women you are really attracted to… and be able to remain confident in almost any situation.

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