How To Tell A Girl You Like Her

Scott Patterson

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When you like a girl, it may be very hard to come out and confess it to her, so instead you beat around the bush by carrying things for her, walking her to class or home and catering to her every whim. If this doesn't give the girl the hint, you will just need to figure out a way to gain confidence to tell her. Here are some things you can do to help you along:


• Always be decent and presentable. Your first and last impressions are the most important, so before you approach the girl of your dreams, make sure you won't regret it when you look in the mirror later. Looks alone won't score you a date with her, but it will help. You will also need to be a good person. Be kind and understanding of what she needs and wants.

• Keep your confidence. Don't allow her to intimidate you and make sure when talking to her that you don't sound like a weirdo or stalker. This will definitely push her away from ever going on a date with you.

• Be prepared for whatever her reaction will be. You will need to calmly and coolly give her a response that will make her think good thoughts of you, even if she did reject your first attempt. This attitude may even change her mind.

• Practice what you are going to say before you approach the girl. Don't do it too much or you may sound like a robot. You want to sound genuine, so just keep in mind what you are trying to get across incase you freeze. It isn't important for you to know the opening conversation word for word.

• Don't have other people tell her what you are feeling. You'll get more points by being a man and telling her yourself. It's also better if you do it in person and not on the phone.

• Don't be ashamed of what other people may think. Who cares? You shouldn't.

• It is a good idea to wait until you two are alone to tell her how you feel. You can also ask if the two of you can have a moment alone now or later, this will begin the butterflies in her stomach as she anticipates what you have to say to her, especially if she already likes you.

• If you love the girl, say something like, "I've thought you were beautiful since the moment I laid eyes on you. Each day you are more beautiful and now, I just can't take it any longer. I need for you to know how I feel...I love you." It is important that you don't just blurt out 'I love you' without letting her know your feelings behind the expression. You can also touch her gently on the hand or shoulder when telling her to make it more genuine.

It is important that you are upfront a possible without being too pushy. Don't beat around the bush; you just may get the response you wanted, so why elongate the process?

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  • Does that leg look a little dismembered to anyone else? Or is it just me...?
    • Onaphobia says
      Glad you picked up on all the important points of both the article and the thread, Jason.
    • Hey, you can always rely on me.
    • HairToday says
      Life is no fair........the good guys lose......nothing changes....thats why the girl we end up with has way more partners.
    • HairToday says
      Love does not = is is less than awesome- sometimes
    • DeeDee says
      Just open your mouth and don't put your foot in it.....
      • DeeDee, be fair, I don't think he can do that....
        • DeeDee says
          ....hmmm not a contortionist....o well NEXT.....
          • I think it's something to do with the fingers typing faster than the brain is able to think. Plus the fact that he's already giving Minion a tongue job...
            • DeeDee says
              poor minion doesn't deserve such punishment.....
              • Since when was a tongue job a punishment???????????
                • DeeDee says
                  ...depends on who is attached to that said tongue......
                  • touché
                  • Jabes says
                    SO what happens if it all goes to plan? do you then run out of things to talk about, so the lady gets bored with your same 3 moves time and time again. These articles are just insulting really
                    • Haha true! But then you just log on to Getfrank and get some further advice from seasoned pros like us. Simple!
                      • DeeDee says
                        Yes Jabes Getfrank is your Dr Phil we are here in total
                      • Onaphobia says
                        I'd try something like... "there is something intriguing about you that I'd kinda like to find out about", you know, just casual, nothing heavy, just a simple statement of fact. Isn't that what it's all about really?
                        • Wow, that would be polished...
                          • Jabes says
                            see id try a casual - my that dress looks becoming on you, but then if i was on you id be cumming too.

                            • Onaphobia says
                              See, now IMHO that might work better on a guy (if you exchange the word dress for pants, and the word becoming for sexy or hot). I think if you're trying to tell a girl you like her you need to think like a girl, what would she say.

                              You know what they say, a woman doesn't want to hear what you think, she wants to hear what SHE thinks in a deeper voice.
                              • Onaphobia says
                                @Jason, I know, right? I'd be like "you had me at 'intriguing'"!
                                • Class Jabes, pure class.
                                  • @ Fiona agreed, intriguing is a good word...
                                    • DeeDee says
                                      LMAO....straight to the point...
                                    • New Member says
                                      There is dis girl who lives in my neighborhood. i really love this girl but i feel shy and afraid when i am even kilometers away with her in fact i dont know what to tell her in case i meet her personally or in close areas with her alone
                                      • DeeDee says
                                        ...just straight out tell her you like's too short, at least you will know if she likes you or if she doesn't if she likes you your away grinning but if she doesn't you can move on and find someone who does.....
                                      • New Member says
                                        when i ask a girl out she said no and i did,nt say any thig at all after that so when she said give me a ride home i did she said thx and went in her house i wanted to say somthing b ut i did,nt and im 11 years old i know im young but i still wnat to go out with her
                                      • New Member says
                                        Good advices let me try tomorrow i'll cum back

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