There is nothing worse than coming to the realization that the woman that you are totally in love with sees you as nothing more than just a guy friend and it seems like that is the way that it is always going to be. Is there some way that you can turn things around and sway her to your side and make her want to be your girlfriend?
Well, it can be a little bit tricky, so the best advice is to never try to be just friends with a woman that you would rather be dating. I know, it seems like the right thing to do and you expected that somehow you would be able to work a little bit of magic on her and she would just fall head over heels for you, but that is the movies and not your life.
Here’s what you need to do to get started on turning her from just a friend and make her want to be your girlfriend:
1. You are going to have to change the way that she sees you.
Right now, she probably does not have a single thought in her mind about ever doing anything physical with you. I know that sucks to hear, but it’s probably closer to the truth than thinking that she secretly does have these kinds of thoughts and feelings about you. To change the way that she sees you, it can take some time, so you have to be sure that she is worth it.
2. You are going to have to change the way that YOU see HER.
Just like she needs to see you in a different way, you also have to see her from a different point of view. The problem with becoming friends with a woman that you want to date is that you start to fall in love with her and you cannot help but to put her on a pedestal. You cannot see her from clear eyes. Every little thing that she does is adorable to you, and you will let her treat you anyway that she wants and that has to stop if you want to date her.
3. You are going to have to sweep back into her life and do it RIGHT this time.
Once you have reframed how you see her and how she sees you, then you need to have some time and space between you and her. Once that is over, THEN you can swoop back in and act the way that you should have in the beginning instead of becoming her friend. This means that you are going to have to flirt with her and make her feel like she has to get your approval. The dynamic has to shift and become right.
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